Archive for 1995

“The Postmaster.”

Speech No. 5 in the Toastmasters “Communication and Leadership” Manual

Date presented: 28 Nov,1995


The objectives of this speech were: 

  • To explore the use of voice, volume, pitch, rate and quality
    as assets to your speaking
  • To apply the principles of a well-developed voice
    to a particular speech.

Time 5 to 7 minutes.


 

The Postmaster

Some people appear to be devoid of human compassion, and the postmaster in our small country town was one of them.He was short and squat like a letterbox, with a pugnacious jaw and grey hair that bristled with impatience.

No one lingered to exchange pleasantries over the counter. No unaccompanied child was sent to buy stamps. All were in awe of his ferocious frown and verbal viciousness.

And yet – he always spoke kindly to his dog. It wasn’t a bit like Laddie, my lovely Labrador. It was a stupid fox terrier, fat and smelly and bad tempered like it’s master. All day it would sit in the doorway of the postoffice, snapping and snarling at anyone who dared to enter.

The mat at the door had “Welcome” printed on it. Hah! That was the only time the postmaster displayed a sense of humor. Anyone with the temerity to enter would receive a blistering glare.

How dare they disturb him in the middle of his mystery novel? He would read to the end of the chapter,then stomp indignantly to the counter.

“Well, what do you want? I haven’t got all day, you know. Oh, no, don’t tell me you want change!”

If it hadn’t been for that irrascible postmaster I would have enjoyed my first job on the telephone exchange. I was 17 and excruciatingly shy. At first it was an effort for me to stammer “Number please” and “Three minutes, are you extending?”

As I gained confidence, it became a game to see if I could answer the calls before Marcy did. But if the Postmaster’s number lit up on the switchboard, we would both hesitate, each hoping the other would take the call. While in the adjoining room, he would furiously pump the receiver up and down, his face indicating stormy weather by changing from red to purple.

When the called number didn’t answer immediately, he would throw down the phone, run to the switchboard and berate us for not ringing loud enough. Meanwhile, of course the called party would answer and hang up, so the whole pantomime had to be repeated.

I used to dread payday. We had to enter the main office and practically beg the postmaster for our pay. One day when I timidly approached his desk, he was so absorbed in his book, he didn’t hear me until I spoke.

“Ahem. excuse me, Sir…”

He shot up out of his chair with a furious bellow. “What do you mean, sneaking up on me like that!”

After that, I never went in while he was reading. I made sure of that by first peeking through the keyhole – until one day I got a terrible shock. There was a baleful blue eye glaring back at me from the other side!

We had always suspected him of spying on us. He often used to slink furtively around the back of the postoffice.

Marcy told me he took anything left lying around. I didn’t believe he’d stoop that low. Still, things did disappear – the watch I left on the sink, coins from the table, biscuits out of our locker – and Marcy’s chocolates.

She was really upset about those chocolates. The new telephone technician had brought them for her.

“He’s gorgeous” she told me. “He has big soft brown eyes, like your dog, Laddie.”

A few days later my lovely dog was run over. My beautiful golden Laddie with the soft brown eyes.

How could I sound brisk and cheerful as I answered calls that day, while my heart was breaking?

I don’t know who told the postmaster. He came strutting into the room where I sat at the switchboard. His dispeptic dog waddled behind. They looked so alike.

He looked at me thoughtfully, not unkindly, then at his dog. Could he be imagining how he would feel if he lost his dog? Could he actually be ….human?

Suddenly he thrust a box in front of me.

“Would you like a chocolate?”

“Er..thankyou,” I stammered “but I couldn’t. I..I’m on a diet.”

I felt miserable.

The simple gesture of sympathy had not been easy for him and it seemed churlish to rebuff him.

But I couldn’t take one of Marcy’s chocolates, could I?

 


COMMENTS 

This was a story I had written for a Creative Writing course. I reused it for this speech. Although it had scope for vocal variety, a speech especially written to suit the requirements probably would have been better.

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“Splashdown!”

Speech No. 4 in the Toastmasters “Communication and Leadership” Manual
Date presented: 26 Sept,1995

The objectives of this speech were:

  • To learn the value of gestures and body movements as part of a speech
  • To explore the different ways of using body language
  • To develop a sense of timing and natural, smooth body movement.

Time 5 to 7 minutes.


Speaking in public is said to be the second greatest fear that most people have. The greatest fear of all – is death. 

Each time we face up to our fears and deal with them, we grow. At least that is what my son Ben tells me, as we consider the Rocky Hollow Log Ride at Dreamworld.

Whee! Splash! Oh, it looks wonderful, and they all come back laughing. Slightly wet, but everyone laughs. They’re having a glorious time.

“Come on Mum,” coaxes Ben, “Think of it as a growth experience.”

“You’ve got to be kidding!” I tell him. I’ve always been content to experience my thrills vicariously, from a spectator’s seat, and yet – I can’t help thinking of an article in a recent Toastmaster’s Magazine, “Take a Giant Step out of your Comfort Zone.”

But I couldn’t take that great a step. Just listen to the screams as they come hurtling down the slide. Oh, no. I’ll just watch.

“It’s perfectly safe,” says Ben. “Little kids are going on it – and look at that lady. She’s even older than you.”

Oh, I know it’s safe. I truly believe it’s safe. But there is a vast difference between believing in something and in daring to experience it yourself.

Still it can’t be too bad. Everyone comes back laughing.

I don’t know how I came to be straddled across a wet seat in a hollow log boat, but I’m sure it’s a mistake. Oh, well, looks like I’m committed now. Maybe they should have committed me years ago.

Ben’s not worried. He hums a little ditty as we drift into a dark tunnel. What have I let myself in for? I don’t know where I’m going or what will happen. There’s no way out now, but to go through with it.

Aaah…! The boat drops down a black hole in the darkness. I wasn’t expecting that. My heart is pounding. If that little dip frightened me, how will I cope with that big slide at the end? Oh, why did I let myself get talked into this? I get frightened on escalators!

What if I have a heart attack? Who’ll put out the wheelie bin tonight?

My thoughts spin in the darkness, like a kitten chasing it’s tail. Round & round & round. I feel the fear and I’m afraid of feeling the fear. I’m afraid of what the fear of fear will do to me.

Ben seems oblivious to the horror of the situation. “We’re climbing now.” He says happily.

The boat is pulled higher and higher and my tension rises with it. I know I’m going to panic. What if I pass out when we reach the top? How will I be able to hold on? I can see the headlines in tomorrow’s news. “Spectators watch in horror as woman plunges to her death at Dreamworld.”

I don’t want to die! Not before I get my C.T.M.!*

Look, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. We’re almost at the top. I hold on so tightly, they’ll probably have trouble unclenching my fists when they retrieve my body.

We emerge in blinding daylight and I see the crowd way down below. Every detail is etched sharply on my mind before I take a header into eternity.

Then we’re falling! It happens so quickly and I feel – nothing!

Swoosh! As we splash down there is water everywhere. It’s in the air. It comes down on my head, my cheeks, my shoulders. It feels wonderful!

And I start to laugh. It feels like the funniest thing that has ever happened to me. I’m still laughing as Ben helps me out of the boat. “That wasn’t so bad, was it?” he asks.

I consider for a moment. “Well, no, I suppose not – not as bad as giving a speech, anyway….
What other rides can we go on?”

I still haven’t overcome my fear of public speaking – but I am hoping that as I face the fear and work through it, I will be better equipped to conquer my other fears.

As for death, I think that when the actual moment comes, it will be swift and silent, like tumbling down a water slide, and I’m quite sure that I’ll come out laughing, when I splash down on the other side.


* C.T.M. is the Competent Toastmaster Award earned by a Toastmaster who completes the 10 speeches in the Communication and Leadership Manual

COMMENTS 

This is one of my favorites! I chose this topic because I realised I was naturally using gestures when I told friends about my adventure. I enjoyed presenting it and everyone loved it!

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“I May Not be Perfect”

Speech No. 3 in the Toastmasters “Communication and Leadership” Manual
Date presented: 9 May, 1995

The objectives of this speech were:

  • To organize your thoughts into a logical sequence
    that leads the audience to a clearly defined goal.
  • To build a speech outline that includes an opening, body and conclusion.

Time 5 to 7 minutes.


” I have so many wonderful qualities, it’s easy to overlook my few disgusting habits.” That’s one of Ashleigh Brilliant’s sayings. He knows that perfection is not a concept that applies to humans. We tolerate one another’s faults and annoying habits because they are only a small part of the total person.

A well-rounded person naturally has more than one side and it’s not always possible to be viewed from the best side of our profile. No matter how diligently we stay on our guard, someone will catch us at a bad moment. Like the time someone took a photo of me blowing out candles on my birthday cake. I don’t know how you look when you blow out candles, but this is how the camera caught me…… (Demonstration with puffed cheeks and eyes popping – Not a pretty sight.)

Now, I ask you, is that what I really look like? You bet it is! But only when I’m blowing out candles – for just a few seconds in a whole year. You know what that means? There are over 3 million seconds every year when I don’t look like that!

Sometimes a bad impression is the first or even the only impression we have of someone. Years ago, a bus driver made a bad impression on me. I never saw him again, but I’ll always remember how rude and impatient he was. Maybe he was a rude impatient man – or maybe he was really a nice man under a lot of stress and having a bad day.

It’s so easy to make judgements based on one incident in a person’s life without knowing why they are acting that way. Sometimes they are simply reacting to something that we are doing.

I’ll never forget the day I was judged by a baboon. I was watching the monkeys at Alma Park Zoo, laughing at their antics when suddenly this big baboon started to glare at me. Next thing, he swung down to the bottom of the cage, scooped up a handful of pebbles and started to pelt me with them. The other monkeys and baboons joined in with such ferocious screeching, it was quite frightening. Someone explained to me later that to these animals, baring the teeth is an expression of hostility. When I smiled and laughed at them, they mistook it for aggression. I still haven’t decided whether I should be concerned or relieved to find that I don’t appeal to a baboon.

One of my friends once reacted something like that baboon. She didn’t throw anything at me; she just stopped talking to me. It took a long time for me to realize she was reacting to a well-meaning remark I had made. She thought I had a low opinion of her.

I can understand how she felt. I always react badly if I think someone has a low opinion of me. I find that I act differently with different people. When I am with friends who see me as a bright outgoing person, I seem to sparkle in their company, but if someone expects me to be dull and stupid, I usually don’t disappoint them.

We are inclined to live up to the image of ourselves that we see reflected in another person’s eyes. The positive people in our lives look past our shortcomings and see us as the person we should be. This helps us to become that person.

So if we look for the best in people they will usually respond by rising to meet our expectations.

Of course we’ll always have some faults and annoying habits. It’s all part of being human. But don’t let the little things stop you from seeing the good side of people.

As Ashleigh Brilliant says, ” I may not be perfect, but parts of me are excellent!”


I was being to feel more confident this time. I’m not really happy with the organisation of this speech. It begins with the way we react to other people, then shifts to the way others react to us! I probably should have kept with the one theme.

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