Archive for July, 1999

Back in hospital, Sorting stuff.

Back in Hospital

Why do hospitals have to send people home before they have recovered? Dad came home on Monday. He spent a miserable day on Tuesday battling with the after effects of his treatment. By Tuesday night he had an infection and a high fever. The doctor ordered him back to hospital again - only the hospital he had been in wouldn’t take him back; they said they were too overcrowded - and he was taken to the city hospital where he had to wait SEVEN HOURS to be admitted! All that trauma probably could have been avoided if they had let him stay one more day. There is something drastically wrong with our public hospitals.

Being in the city makes it harder for us to visit him. The traffic is terrible and its almost impossible to find parking space. Jan took Mum to see him this morning. I will probably go tomorrow - by train and bus. I can drive around our area but never in the city!

Sorting Stuff

Yesterday morning, one of our friends delivered a heap of stuff to Mum’s place for our World Vision Jumble Sales. She had been to a School Fete on Saturday and scrounged the left-overs from their Trash and Treasure stall. Mum phoned me as soon as our friend left and I went down to help her sort and price the stuff. We had a busy morning, sorting, cleaning and pricing while popping upstairs at frequent intervals to check on Dad. When I came home last night, I found a big bag of clothes someone had left on my doorstep.

It has been cold, windy and raining again today. I’ll be glad to get in bed soon with Buddy and Ingrid. (I hope you realise, they are my two cats!)

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Dad home, Lucky Dips, Buddy helps.

Dad hasn’t been well and has had a couple of days in hospital. He came home this morning. Panther, the black cat, wandered around looking lost all weekend. He is used to sitting with Dad most of the day. He looked so relieved when Dad came home.

It has been a cold messy weekend. Saturday was one of those awful days when the cold just seeps into your bones….and it rained and rained. I was trying to get the car packed up for our World Vision stall at the Festival that our community has at this time every year. I don’t know why they have it in July - it’s nearly always cold and windy. I was out late Saturday night - Relle and I went and stayed with Shea and Callum while Jan went to a Dinner - and I thought I’d be able to sleep in next morning because the Festival was sure to be cancelled. It was still raining when we came home at 1 a.m.

Lucky Dips

I couldn’t believe it when I woke on Sunday and the sun was shining! A lot of the stalls were already set up when we arrived. It was very boggy underfoot but not as bad as I had expected. We had a lot of craft items on our stall but our Lucky Dips are always the most popular. A lot of the other stalls have Lucky Dips - most of them are dearer than ours. We always have variety in our Dips, because we collect a lot of interesting little knick-knacks from our Jumble Sales. Sometimes we find cheap little toys at school fetes too. By midday we had sold all the girl’s and boy’s Lucky Dips and only had ladies’ Dips left. The kids still kept coming back and a lot of them (even the boys) bought the ladies’ Dips.

Jan had brought Shea and Callum. Callum insisted on buying a ladies’ Dip and discovered it was a necklace of black beads. I said, “Wow, black boy beads!” He beamed and wore them proudly all afternoon.

Part of the fun is wandering around to see what the other stalls are selling. I always return with more books. I was thrilled to find a second-hand plastic ride-on trike on one of the stalls. The little ones can ride on it when they visit me.

It rained several times during the day. Each time, we had to cover everything with plastic and huddle under umbrellas. And everything had to be dried after we got home. I was so tired, I was in bed by 7 p.m.

Lea rang this morning to say Matthew has started to walk. He’ll be so cute, toddling around.

Buddy Helps

I’ve finally got my first 10 Toastmasters speeches ready to put on my site. The other night I was working on them when that blasted cat Buddy came in. As usual, he jumped straight onto the keyboard and all the windows I was working on - the whole 10 of them- flashed onto the screen in quick succession. When I tried to close them later a message appeared for each one asking if I wanted to save the changes made. This posed a dilemma….was it the changes I had spent the last three hours on, or the changes the cat had made? I had to examine each one carefully before I closed it down. Another late night.

The next morning Buddy was lying on the front path soaking up the sun. As I rushed past him, he rolled over invitingly and displayed his fluffy belly. “I’m sorry,” I called back to him. “I can’t rub your belly - I’m running late!” I received such a strange look from the man painting the house next door…….

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Speech competition, Trivia, A Coke encounter.

These entries are getting further apart! My excuse this week is, I have been working on my collection of Toastmasters speeches. I should have them up for you to look at next week - if you are interested.

Speech Competition

We had the first of our annual competitions at our last Toastmasters meeting. I wasn’t competing this year and was able to concentrate on the speeches. I enjoyed the Evaluation contest - where various Toastmasters evaluate the same speech. It’s always interesting to hear the different points of view and compare them with my own.

Trivia

What is an Ait?
What are the colours in their correct order of the Olympic rings?
How many drops make a dash?
Who was the Virgin Queen?
Which animal has the highest blood pressure?

Just a few of the questions from our World Vision Trivia morning. It was a lot of fun. It’s the first we’ve had this year, but we usually have one quite often because it’s so easy to organise and everyone enjoys it. We don’t run it on a big scale like some organisations do - our club prefers to have small social events often - with a minimum of stress.

What is a Trivia Morning?

Our method is simple. We allocate five people to each prepare a round of 10 general knowledge questions. This spreads the workload and everyone is able to play. On the day, these five people sit at separate tables with their respective teams. (You could have more teams, of course, if you have a lot of people.) At each round one of the team leaders stands and reads out her 10 questions while the members of each team put their heads together to choose their answer. There is always a lot of laughing, cheering or groaning when the answers are read out. After the final round all scores are added and each member of the winning team receives a small prize. To keep spirits high, volunteers tell jokes between each round. Oh yes, we have a Bring and Buy stall too. That’s where we make the most profit and provides another way for everyone to make a contribution to the event.

Quote of the week.

During morning tea at our Trivia Morning I heard someone say, “No thanks. There’s a limit to how much I can eat when I’m wearing my step-ins!”

80th Birthday

Mum’s brother had a surprise 80 Birthday party on Sunday. My sister Relle drove Mum to Gympie for the party. They had a great time, catching up with people they hadn’t seen for years. Dad couldn’t go of course. I spent the day with him.

Dad has had bronchitis for a while. The doctor came the other day and gave him some different medication. He’s not coughing as much as he was.

A Coke encounter

Joel and Frances and little Miles are recovering from the flu. Frances was able to wash the floors yesterday. Just after she finished, she heard a hissing noise and a terrible scream and Miles came running to her, dripping wet. He’d found a can of coke, rolled it and tossed it around for a while, then discovered how to open it……
All the floors had to be washed again.

Still raining.

It’s still raining nearly every day. It’s the wettest July we’ve had in 25 years. Today has been fine so far, but it is starting to look overcast again. I spent a couple of afternoons (when it was fine) pulling up weeds. Now is the time to do it while the ground is soft. I’ve put layers of newspaper over the garden bed and covered it with mulch. That will keep them down for a while. Sometimes I don’t even pull up the weeds - I just smother them with the newspaper. They were too high for me to get away with it this time. I’m a lazy gardener.

I’ve finally found a pair of shoes that keep my feet dry when I walk on the wet grass. I was sick of putting plastic wrap around my toes inside my shoes every time I went outside.

The Iris bulbs I brought back from Melbourne are growing well. Their roots have grown out through the bottom of the pots. I’ll have to put them in bigger pots - but not today………

It has started to rain again.

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Matthew’s Birthday, 5 yr-old fun, Crazy english.

The sun is shining! It looked like another wet day when I woke, but it has turned into a beautiful day and my washing is waving triumphantly on the clothesline.

Matthew Birthday

Yesterday, we celebrated little Matthew’s first birthday. Family celebrations are usually held at Mum and Dad’s place, because Dad finds it too difficult to go anywhere. Lea brought Matthew and Robert before the others arrived, so Matthew was able try out his new “Dune Buggy” before his cousins arrived. The “Dune Buggy” is actually a little ride-on tricycle, made of moulded plastic, that Mum bought for him. (You should have seen us trying to assemble it last week!…. Trying to line up the pieces and push the metal rods through the holes and hammer on the capnuts …but that is another story.)

Jan (another sister) came with Shea and Callum and my son Joel and his wife Frances brought Miles. Relle, my other sister came later in the afternoon.

At dinner, the two five-year-olds, Robert and Callum were excited and tried to out-talk each other, but Matthew and Miles sat quietly in their high chairs and ate their food. Afterwards, the babies played on the floor with the blocks. They were so good. Miles is just three months older than Matthew.

Five-year-old fun

While Shea (who is nearly 10) played “Upwords” with the adults, Robert and Callum disappeared downstairs. After a while I went down to investigate. They had made a wonderful cubby house with tablecloths draped over boxes, tables and chairs. It was a glorious mess, but they were doing no harm, so I sat and watched the fun. It was quite enlightening and entertaining to listen in on five-year-old conversation. Callum had tied black plastic tape around the tables - he said it was electric wire - then he pretended to be electrocuted and lay “dead.” Robert rushed over, prised open Callum’s mouth, pinched his nose shut and was about to give him “mouth to mouth” resuscitation. (I didn’t know they taught that in kindergarten!!) At that critical moment, Relle arrived, and the “corpse” jumped up and helped Robert to pelt her with cushions.

I thought the boys might like to pretend to be firemen. I said I was going to ring the fire brigade and get them to clean up the mess. “Good idea!” said Callum, happily, “Then we won’t have to do it.”

They found a plastic bag containing a few things for the next rag collection and wanted to investigate the “treasure.”

“Not until the mess is cleaned up,” I told them. They quickly tidied up, then examined the contents of the bag. Callum pulled out a pair of black shoulder pads. “What are these?” he asked placing them strategically against his chest.

“They’re eye patches!” shouted Robert. So they took one each and ran around yelling “Yo, ho, ho and a bottle of rum!” Sometimes the chant changed to “Yo, ho, ho in a bottle shop!”

After that, we went upstairs for Birthday cake. The boys started thumping their hands on the table. The babies thought this was great fun and both joined in, chortling and slapping their hands on the trays of the high chairs.

Peek-a-boo

Just before everyone went home, Miles started to play peek-a-boo with me behind the curtain, but he must have wanted a larger audience. He went over to where everyone else was sitting, and loudly commanded attention in his own lingo, than he ran back and peered around the curtain at them! The little ones are so cute now. I wish they could stay at this stage a bit longer.

One day last week Mum and I minded Matthew while Lea took Robert to see “Toy Story on Ice.” He was no trouble - except when we tried to change his nappy. He kept squirming away and crawling off with a bare bottom. It took the two of us to hold him down while I finally fastened it and then it looked a bit skewiff. Mum said, “Let’s hope his mother comes back before he needs changing again.” Luckily, she did.

Shea stayed with Mum and Dad a couple of days during the school holidays. She keeps us busy playing “Skipbo” and “Upwords.” I brought her back to my place the other day and we played duets on her clarinet and my keyboard.

Crazy English

The English language is changing all the time and some words have totally different connotations now. I remember when School Readers featured stories about “Spot” the dog and “Fluff” the cat. Shea had brought a fluffy toy cat with her. She said she hadn’t given it a name. Mum said, “You could call it “Fluff.” Shea laughed uproariously to think her Grandmother had said one of “those words.”

That reminds me; our church held a very successful kids programme during the school holidays. The Pastor told them a story and dressed for the part in an angel costume, complete with wings. Afterwards, a little boy came up to him and said, “I know you. You’re the fairy!”

I had an Email from my younger son Ben. He and Agnieszka have just come back from a week in the sun in Vanuatu to chilly Melbourne. Brrrrrrrrr!

Jumble Sale

Our last Jumble Sale for World Vision was a great success. We sell lots of warm clothing this weather - as well as books, plants and all kinds of bric-a-brac. I was exhausted when I came home, but had a good rest and was able to attend a games night with a group of friends. Great fun!

Our Toastmasters Club combined with two other Toastmasters Clubs for the Changeover Dinner last week (That’s when the new executive is inducted.) We had a Nautical theme this year and everyone dressed appropriately. I wore Ben’s old life jacket and found it was a good choice for a cold night - it kept me warm. It was a great evening. I even won one of the raffles.

Harry’s Visit

My husband Deryck’s brother Harry came to see me this week. Until a few years ago, I hadn’t seen him since Deryck’s funeral - 28 years ago. It’s uncanny. Harry doesn’t really look like Deryck, but sometimes when he is talking, a fleeting expression on his face will remind me of Deryck. The strange thing is, it’s an expression that I had forgotten!

Yesterday, at the end of the church service, a magpie outside joined in as we sang the last song. It’s carolling blended beautifully with the music. What a lovely way to start the week!

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